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How To Keep Sex Alive In Your Relationship

By Ian Tomlinson | Apr 3, 2013 | 0 Comments

I love TED talks! In this one Esther Perel talks about why the sex commonly fizzles out in long term relationships. Perel talks about how we demand from one partner what we used to get from an entire community and how many of the things we want from our partners are contradictory.  For example we want…

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Does Psychotherapy Work?

By Ian Tomlinson | Mar 24, 2013 | 0 Comments

“Does therapy work?” is a simple question and I am very tempted to give a simple answer – “yes!”  As with most things in life though, it’s not as simple as that because sometimes the answer is “no” and sometimes it’s “maybe – what do you think?”.  Let me explain my ridiculously ambiguous response. Can…

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What Is Imago Relationship Therapy?

By Ian Tomlinson | Mar 17, 2013 | 4 Comments

Imago Relationship Therapy was created by Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt (Harville’s wife).  They define it as “a theory and therapy of committed partnership with a focus on marriage/civil partnership.” I have been using Imago Relationship Therapy as my model of couples therapy for several years now.  I have chosen to use it because I…

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Therapy rooms available to hire in Wilmslow, near Manchester

By Ian Tomlinson | Mar 10, 2013 | Comments Off on Therapy rooms available to hire in Wilmslow, near Manchester

The Affinity Centre in Wilmslow has rooms to rent for psychotherapists and counsellors who are looking for a home.  Room rental includes hire of a well decorated, warm and comfortable room, free wifi, free tea and coffee and a referral system to build up your client numbers. The Affinity Centre is situated on Water Lane,…

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What Is Transactional Analysis Theory?

By Ian Tomlinson | Mar 10, 2013 | 18 Comments

Transactional Analysis  has had a tremendous impact on my life.  It’s changed the way I think about who I am and how I relate to others.  Over the next few weeks I intend to explore this theory and how we can all use it to change our lives for the better. In this post I…

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